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Dating Advice - dating mistakes

many men commit, but usually aren't aware of. Truth about dating women.

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Carlos Xuma, the author of The Dating Black Book 

The author of The Dating Black Book and the Dating Dynamics E-zines is Carlos Xuma, who -- besides over 24 years in the dating world (egads) -- has provided advice online for several years as well. Some of his credits: 

  • Articles published on many dating sites and newsletters, including Dating Insider, Lovelinks, and The Don Juan Center
  • Moderator of the Dating Insider News forum, providing daily advice for single men of all ages and situations
  • Advisor for the Dating Insider member only forum
  • Student (now reformed) of countless dating advice Pundits, from John Grey and Barbara DeAngelis to James Bond and Cary Grant

... Set a threshold of emotional investment with women so that your limit your potential pain from them. If you find it  difficult to flirt and hit on the ladies because it's too painful, back off a bit. Just say Hi! as you pass them on the street. Reduce your energy output so that you don't feel impacted by her  response. When you get sufficiently recharged, you can then start to risk more contact with her again, and you'll feel more up to the challenge...

...It's easy and tempting to read too  much into a woman's behavior, and even more difficult to not take her reactions too seriously. Remember that while you're trying  to get into her bed, you should never try to get into her head. You need to keep your observation of her behavior based only  on the results you get. Watch only what she DOES, not what she says. Her actions will tell you what she is feeling, even when her  words seem to contradict. Another form of pain management is to ensure that you interpret women's reactions correctly...

...The rule for pain management is the same as it is on Wall Street: Only invest as much as you can afford to lose. Too many guys  get into trouble by putting too much of an emotional investment  out  there, and then when they don't get the response they feel entitled  to, they turn bitter and angry. Don't make this mistake... 

...Here's a bonus strategy: To keep your attitude and sense of self and fulfillment up - and the pain controlled - take the opportunity to create a zone in your world to affirm  your value. What you need to do is create an Ego Wall...

...Manage your pain, and you'll be able to stay in the game longer, and your endurance and tolerance will rise dramatically - as will your results. You'll feel your weaknesses around women leaving you with each step you take... 

...An Ego Wall is a place where you hang your awards, certificates, diplomas, pictures, plaques, etc. - all the things that pump up your opinion and belief in yourself. On my Ego Wall I've got pictures of me snowboarding, skydiving, my day at a race car school, my college diploma, my martial arts certificates, etc. It's affirming to me, and when other women see it, they understand that I'm not just waiting around on the sidelines of life - I go out and actively pursue what I want. This is immensely attractive to women... 

Make yourself an ego-wall to help you through those painful moments in your learning process. 

And remember: Pain is nothing more than the sensation of weakness leaving your body. Manage that pain.

 -Carlos Xuma - Seduction Method - 
(Carlos is a contributing writer to DD Publications.)
 

 

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